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The term 'sugar daddy' is older even than as its protagonist but the romantic and financial dynamics between an old man and his arm candy are rarely discussed openly.
Now though, 63-year-old Tommy and his 'sugar baby', Monte have spilled the beans on the ins and outs of their arrangement (no pun intended).
Tommy and Monte, 21, have been 'sugar dating' for two years during which time he has paid for her college tuition and bought her expensive clothes, while she has provided him with company and sexual favours.
Sweet treat: Tommy, 63, and Monte, 21, are a sugar daddy and 'sugar baby' whose relationship is based on companionship and sex in exchange for money
Talk about perks: Tommy checks out the newly enhanced assets of his 'companion' that he paid for along with her college tuition and clothes
Monte, however, isn't Tommy's only girlfriend of this variety; he has six others, all of whom enjoy the same benefits in exchange for providing him with what he refers to as 'companionship'.
After finding Monte on SeekingArrangement.com, Tommy now spends about $5,000 a month on her alone which, with an estimated $150,000 annual budget for his 'babies', is perhaps an indicator of how happy he is with the lithe brunette.
In an interview with ABC, he compared walking into a room with Monte to pulling up in a really nice car.
'There are sugar babies on different levels,' he explained. 'You know, you've got your Walmart sugar babies and you've got your Neiman Marcus sugar babies and it's which ones you want to shop at.'
For her part, the young student sees an unmissable opportunity to finish college debt-free while being treated to all the perks a girls loves such as free clothes and of course, a breast enhancement.
All business: Men can find 'sugar babies' on this site where students from schools like NYU and Harvard are known to have posted profiles
Monte, who would only be filmed in profile, recalled the deal they brokered: 'He's like, "I could help you get through school easy and you just travel with me, have fun, be around me and just keep me company," and I said, "sure! You're going to pay for my school?"'
Plus, she said, with Tommy's life experience and social smarts, she is fast becoming a more sophisticated and worldly woman than before she met him.
'[He] taught me how to golf, cook, be a classy woman,' she explained. 'He's just transformed me back to something I've always wanted to become.'
Though Tommy admitted that without the promise of sex, he wouldn't invite Monte to spend time with him or give her any money, both insist their relationship is not prostitution.
'It is what it is,' responded Monte. 'We all mature and I know I'm gonna be old one day and I hope I get lovin' too.'
'I've got my rent paid, I just got some brand new boobs... Life's great!'
Tommy's perspective was slightly different: 'If we're talking about money exchanged for sex, I don't see that this way. It's just not "wham, bam, thank you, ma'am."'
And in what could have been taken as a stab at his three ex-wives, he added: 'You know, you pay somehow somewhere for sex no matter what it is. They say wives do it for refrigerators.'
A retired IT executive, Tommy had two adult children before he opted for this 'sugar dating' arrangement where romance barely plucks the string of a fiddle to sex.
But the deal has its emotional toll on Monte who does sometimes worry about the implications of being a 'kept' woman.
'Sometimes it gets to me to know that he is my only way of income and that makes me feel like you know, I'm not really doing anything,' she confessed.
A pro: Olympia is 24 and has been 'sugar dating' since she was 19 to pay for broadcasting college and more
Multitasking: Olympia meets one of her sugar daddies moments before she gets on a flight to spend a weekend with another
For 24-year-old Olympia, who has been 'sugar dating' since she was 19, the only downside is loneliness.
'It does get lonely for me because that person can't always be there for me when I need them to be,' she said, though to which of her multiple sugar daddies she was referring, was unclear.
Meanwhile the 'college baby' pays 100per cent of her broadcasting school tuition in Denver from the money she gets given by her Secret Arrangement companions.
And when she's really lucky, like when she meets up with Mormon, Kenny, she doesn't even have to sleep with them for the pay-off.
'I've got my rent paid for up to a year,' she gushed. 'All the cars I've had, have been paid for by sugar daddies. I've gotten to go to the Caribbean.
'I've gotten to travel all across the nation. I just got some brand new boobs. Life's great.'
Eurozone big four pledge 1% of GDP to underwrite banks and stimulate growth - The Guardian
The leaders of the eurozone's biggest economies announced on Friday night that 1% of the European Union's GDP was to be set aside to help the continent grow its way out of the financial crisis. But doubts were immediately expressed as to what share of the package – said to be worth €130bn (£105m) – would be genuinely new money.
After several hours of apparently tense discussions, there was no immediate agreement on a plan outlined by Italy's prime minister, Mario Monti, on Thursday, aimed at stabilising Europe's banks and protecting countries under attack in the markets.
"There was an agreement between all of us to use any necessary mechanism to obtain financial stability in the eurozone," said Mariano Rajoy, the Spanish prime minister, afterwards.
But the German chancellor, Angela Merkel, insisted that the EU must take full advantage of the instruments already at its disposal. Her remark suggested she is wary of two new funds – to guarantee bank depositors and as a lender of last resort to ailing banks – understood to have been on the agenda at Friday's talks.
In a sign that tempers are becoming increasingly frayed before next week's crucial summit, the normally gentlemanly Monti used his closing remarks to attack France and Germany publicly.
With Merkel and the French president, François Hollande, standing just feet from him on the podium, he reminded the world's media that it was not Greece or any of the other alleged EU basket cases that had first broken the rules on fiscal discipline in the eurozone, but the single currency's two biggest nations – albeit with the endorsement of Italy, which then held the EU presidency.
Friday's meeting of the big four leaders in Rome came as yet more gloomy eurozone economic indicators were released. German business confidence has fallen to a two-year low, while Italian consumer confidence has plunged to its lowest level on record. Monti's popular support is in decline as the Italian economy fights both recession and rising unemployment and Rome faces increased borrowing costs.
Hollande revealed that all four leaders were in favour of a European financial transactions tax, a small tax on all financial deals which was originally proposed to tame speculation in the financial markets. His comment followed agreement by a group of countries – not including the UK – at the EU finance ministers' meeting in Luxembourg to press ahead with plans for the tax.
David Hillman of the UK's Robin Hood Tax campaign – which backs the financial transactions tax and wants any cash raised to be earmarked for development – welcomed the agreement, but added that "the UK public will be rightly angry that George Osborne is resisting efforts to make the City pay its fair share".
He said that a Robin Hood tax would "boost growth as well as raising billions to tackle poverty and protect public services at home and abroad".
One of the keys to next week's summit will be the precise terms of the growth package. The €130bn would appear to represent a sum that might be raised or redirected from existing funds, rather than any commitment of new money. Nicholas Spiro, of Spiro Sovereign Strategy, said: "The pact has a shuffling of the deckchairs feel to it."
EU governments have already agreed to boost the capital of the European Investment Bank by €10bn, hoping it will be leveraged into €60bn in the financial markets for investment purposes. The growth package also appears to entail deploying up to €55bn in unspent EU structural funds.
Governments have already agreed to allow the sale of "project bonds" in the markets in the hope of raising capital for major infrastructure projects.
Another measure by which the summit will be judged is progress towards a project for guaranteeing financial stability which, according to an informed source, was being worked on by the "gang of four", including representatives of the European Central Bank (ECB), Eurogroup, and European commission and council. One aspect of the project was spelled out by Monti in an interview with the Guardian and other leading European newspapers on Thursday.
This would involve tying the purchase of sovereign bonds to the performance of the country in need of help. Virtuous states that had introduced structural reforms and contained their budget deficits would be rewarded.
In its present form, the plan would see the buying done by the European Financial Stability Facility, the bailout fund for states, rather than the European Central Bank.
The other aspects of the plan would involve the creation of two new rapid response funds: one would guarantee bank depositors; the other could be used to deal with institutions such as Spain's Bankia that looked as if they might pose a threat to the entire eurozone, creating, if not a bank of last resort, a fund of last resort.
Merkel appeared to be less than convinced of this idea, or at least bent on ensuring it was accompanied by iron controls. In an apparent reference to the still-secret plan, she said that if Germany were to give money to a Spanish bank she would have no way of knowing how it was spent – and that would be a "giant problem" for her.
The proposed new bank intervention fund appears to require new administration because the ECB, with a mandate to deal strictly with monetary policy, could not run the proposed new funds.
Jimmy Carr's father accuses comic of failing to pay back the money he lent him - Daily Telegraph
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Jim Carr, who has not spoken to his son for eight years following a bitter family dispute, claims he lent his son hundreds of pounds, paid all his bills and allowed him to live at home rent free, while he was trying to make his way as a stand-up on Britain ...
Such a deal! I wish I could do that, but I a) don't have the money, and b) probably couldn't live with myself. Although, it would beat marrying the girl and a few years later getting wiped out in court.
- txguy71, Dallas, 22/6/2012 21:46
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